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Suffering is a choice

What is suffering? Suffering is pain that is caused by injury illness or loss. It is usually described as a negative basic feeling or emotion. It is growing to the human condition and the ways people address suffering go far in determining the course of their lives. In short suffering is something negative, a negative feeling, negative thought, and a negative effect on human emotion. Every thing that is negative seems to be a suffering.

For me we suffer because we choose to suffer. Suffering becomes suffering when you consider it as a such. We don't know that these sufferings are just trials that we turn into sufferings. Trials are part of our life and suffering is our choice if we will include it into our life.

For example when we express illness whether to our selves or to someone close to us, we sees and consider it as suffering. But what we don't realize is that these illness are given to us for a reason, and that is to strengthen our faith to our God. See it not as a suffering but just a tert. Another thing, the most common suffering in our generation are heartache, emotional breakdown, depression and insecurities. These are just trials that can be addressed easily if we want to. These sufferings are meant to develop our emotional and mental aspects. See how big tha change can be if we start to change tha way we perceive circumstances from suffering to just trials/challenges 

Moreover, people can be defeated and embittered by suffering, or they can use their suffering to spur them on to a successful life. Some people even take suffering on themselves in order to relieve the suffering of others. Suffering can also lead to realization about the purpose of life and open a door to new beginning. 

Remember, it is just a matter of how we perceive things. If you start to change the way you see things, the things you see will start to change. Now, you choose.